WHOLE-CHILD DESIGN
Using the science of learning and development to design practices that support the whole child
WHOLE-CHILD DESIGN > DEVELOPMENTAL RELATIONSHIPS
Trust-Building Interactions
Trust is the cornerstone of developmental relationships – and it is created when we go “beyond being nice.” Trust can be built through interactions characterized by gestures of caring, authentic listening, personalization, consistency and dependable support. Strong, developmental relationships built on trust are also bi-directional, meaning each person in the relationship holds power and is influenced by the other. Therefore, individual adult and student perceptions of the relationship matter, routine care and reflection must take place, and students’ growing autonomy and voice must be supported.
REFLECT AND REDESIGN
Explore the following resources to reflect on key concepts of developmental relationships and start to implement this core practice in your work
Every Opportunity
What do you think an attuned, responsive educator (leader, teacher, staff member) looks like? Sounds like? Acts like? Believes?
In your experience, what are the biggest roadblocks to adults being attuned and responsive to students?
[Video credit: The Rollins Center for Language & Literacy at the Atlanta Speech School]
Scenario Analysis
REFLECTION TOOL
Use this exercise to analyze how the characteristics of developmental relationships can build trust in common school scenarios.
Mindsets and Messages
REFLECTION TOOL
Use this tool to reflect on how the mindsets you hold and corresponding messages you send can influence relationship building with students.
Relationships Inventory
REDESIGN TOOL
Use the educator inventory and student surveys to reflect on relational aspects of the classroom.
Individualized Relationship Strategies
REDESIGN TOOL
Use these tools to strengthen relationships with individual students.
Empathetic Listening Strategies
REDESIGN TOOL
Empathetic listening helps support the development of trusting relationships through committed attention, nonjudgment and probing to understand.